"Le renard et les raisins"
— Aesop
Simplified Meaning:
Sometimes, people pretend to dislike something they really want but can’t get. It’s a way of protecting themselves from feeling bad or disappointed. Imagine a kid really wanting a toy but not being able to afford it. Instead of admitting how much they wanted it, they might say, “That toy is stupid anyway.” This helps them feel better about not having it. The same thing happens with adults in various situations. If someone wants a promotion at work but doesn't get it, they might tell themselves and others that the promotion wasn't that good, to begin with. This way, they avoid feeling too sad about not getting it. The idea is to recognize when we do this and try to be honest with ourselves about our desires and disappointments.