"真正的归属感不是被动的。它不是加入一个群体后就能拥有的归属感。它不是为了安全而迎合、假装或妥协。它是一种需要脆弱性来体验不适并学习如何在不牺牲自我的情况下与他人相处的实践。"
— Brene Brown
Simplified Meaning:
True belonging means you actively connect with others while staying true to yourself. It's not about just joining a group or pretending to be someone you're not to feel accepted. Imagine you're starting a new job. You might feel the pressure to fit in by acting differently or agreeing with things you don't believe in. True belonging, however, means you show your real self, even if it's uncomfortable at times. It requires courage to be open and honest, allowing you to genuinely connect with others. By doing this, you can build strong, authentic relationships without losing your own identity. This approach helps create deeper trust and understanding between people.
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