"根本没有礼貌的方式告诉别人他们的一生都奉献给了一个幻觉"
— Daniel dennett
Simplified Meaning:
When someone has spent their whole life believing in something that isn't real, it can be very hard to tell them the truth without hurting their feelings or making them upset. For instance, imagine someone who has always thought they were going to be a famous singer, and they've worked tirelessly for years, but they don't have the talent or opportunity to make it big. Telling them that their dream is not going to come true can seem cruel, because their whole identity and sense of purpose are tied to that dream. It's similar to trying to wake someone from a deep, comforting sleep—doing it gently is almost impossible. This means the honest truth often causes pain, but it's sometimes necessary for personal growth and moving forward. If we need to tell someone about their mistaken beliefs, it's important to be kind and gentle, thinking about their feelings and the impact our words will have.
