“One can be the master of what one does but never of what one feels.”
— Gustave Flaubert
Simplified Meaning:
Everyone can control their actions and the tasks they complete, but feelings are harder to manage. For example, you can decide to study hard for an exam and follow through with it. However, you may still feel nervous or worried about the test, even if you prepared well. The main idea is that our emotions don't always follow what we decide or plan. We can choose how we behave but our natural, inner feelings can be unpredictable. It's like how a person can act kindly towards others even if they are feeling sad or angry inside. Understanding this idea helps you accept your emotions without letting them control your actions. So, try to focus on what you can do, and be patient with yourself about how you feel.
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