"À la fin les gens justifieront tout ce qu'ils veulent"
— Haruki Murakami
Simplified Meaning:
People often find reasons to support what they already want to believe or do. Imagine a person who really wants to eat a lot of junk food. Even if they know it's unhealthy, they might tell themselves things like, "I deserve a treat," or "One time won't hurt." This way, they feel okay about their choice. Similarly, when someone wants a new expensive gadget, they might convince themselves it's necessary for work or study, even if it's not. This behavior happens because our minds look for excuses that match our desires. It's like putting on glasses that make only what we want to see clear. Understanding this can help us make more honest decisions. By being aware of this tendency, we can ask ourselves if we're really being honest or just finding excuses. This can lead to better choices and less regret later on.