“It is so hard to leave until you leave and then it is the easiest goddamned thing in the world”
— John Green
Simplified Meaning:
Leaving a situation that makes you unhappy can feel really difficult because you worry about the changes and what might happen next. However, once you take the step to leave, you often feel relieved and realize it wasn't as hard as you thought. Imagine you're in a job that makes you stressed every day. You hesitate to quit because you're scared about not having money or finding a new job. But once you decide to leave, you notice that the stress melts away and you quickly start to feel better about your decision. Just like in history, when people moved to new countries for better lives, they were afraid to leave their homes. Yet once they did, many found new opportunities and felt happier with their choice. If you find yourself in an unhappy relationship, job, or place, remember that taking the first step to leave can seem tough. But once you do, you'll often find it was the best decision and much easier than you thought. Taking that step can lead to positive changes and more happiness.