“I speak the truth, not so much as I would, but as much as I dare, and I dare a little more as I grow older”
— Michel de Montaigne
Simplified Meaning:
As people get older, they often become more confident in expressing their honest thoughts and feelings. When we are younger, we might be afraid to say what we really think because we worry about what others will think or how they will react. For example, a young person might not tell a friend that they hurt their feelings, fearing the friend will get upset. However, as they gain more life experience and grow older, they realize the importance of honesty and become braver about speaking the truth. This process can make relationships stronger because honesty builds trust. If someone feels able to share their true opinions and feelings over time, it can lead to clearer communication and less misunderstanding. So, by gradually daring to speak more truthfully, a person can develop better and more authentic connections with others.