"افرادی که نمیتوانند اعتماد کنند خودشان قابل اعتماد نیستند"
— Mokokoma Mokhonoana
Simplified Meaning:
When someone finds it hard to trust others, it might be because they themselves are not trustworthy. Let's think about this with a simple example: if there's a person who always lies or breaks promises, they expect others to do the same. Because they can't imagine being honest, they assume no one else is honest either. This makes it hard for them to trust anyone. Imagine you have a friend who never keeps secrets. Because they always spill the beans, they never trust you or anyone else to keep a secret. They think, "If I can't keep secrets, no one can." This lack of trust comes from their own behavior. For someone to trust others more, they need to act in a way that builds trust themselves. If you want to trust people, start by being honest and keeping your promises. Over time, you'll notice that others will trust you more, and you'll also find it easier to trust them. This approach can help improve relationships and create a more positive environment because trust encourages trust, and it all begins with our own actions.