“What we’re seeing here is our own reflection”
— Ram Dass
Simplified Meaning:
When you look at other people or situations, sometimes what you notice the most are the things that are actually true about yourself. Think of it like looking in a mirror; the mirror shows you your own face. If you see someone doing something you think is annoying, it might be because you do that same thing, and it annoys you about yourself. For example, if you're always in a hurry and you get impatient with someone who's slow, deep down, you may be impatient with yourself for not slowing down. This idea helps us understand that our feelings about others can teach us about our own behaviors and attitudes. It’s a useful way to grow and improve by reflecting on why certain things bother us. By recognizing our flaws in others, we can make changes in ourselves to become better people.