"تمام اضطرابات شما به خاطر تمایلتان به هماهنگی است. به دنبال ناهماهنگی باشید، آنگاه صلح را به دست خواهید آورد."
— Rumi
Simplified Meaning:
When you want everything to go perfectly and everyone to get along, it can make you feel very stressed and anxious. It's like if you're organizing a group project and you're worried about making everyone happy; that pressure can be overwhelming. But if you accept that sometimes things will not go smoothly, and there might be disagreements or conflicts, you won’t feel as anxious. For example, in a family argument, instead of trying to make everyone happy right away, you accept that there will be some arguing first. This way, you can work through the problems, and in time, find a more genuine and lasting peace. By facing the uncomfortable situations, you reduce your fear and stress, and you can actually solve problems better. So, don’t always avoid conflict; sometimes, dealing with it directly can make things better in the long run.
