"متعة إشباع غريزةٍ بريةٍ، لم تروض بواسطة الأنا، أكثر شدةً بما لا يُقارن من إشباع غريزةٍ مروضةٍ."
— Sigmund Freud
Simplified Meaning:
This quote is about how giving in to strong, wild desires feels much more intense and powerful than controlling or calming those desires. Imagine you really want to eat a whole box of chocolates. If you go ahead and eat it all at once, the joy and excitement you feel is very strong because you are fully giving in to your craving. But if you only eat one piece and then stop yourself, the feeling is much calmer and controlled. In the same way, people sometimes have very strong desires or impulses that they struggle to control, like the desire to shout when they’re angry or to spend a lot of money on something they really want. When they let themselves go and react without holding back, it feels much more exciting and powerful than if they control themselves. However, while giving in might feel more intense, it's often better in the long run to tame these instincts, as it helps us live more balanced, less chaotic lives. Applying this to your life means recognizing that while it might feel amazing to give in to your wild desires, managing them can lead to better, more mature decisions and fewer regrets. For example, instead of spending all your money on something you don't need, you could save it for something more important in the future. This way, you balance instant pleasure with long-term happiness.