"Si vous n'attendez rien de quelqu'un vous n'êtes jamais déçu."
— Sylvia Plath
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Simplified Meaning:
When you don't have any expectations from someone, they can't let you down. Think about a friend who promises to meet you for coffee but regularly cancels at the last minute. If you expect them to cancel, you won't feel upset when they do. On the other hand, if you hope they will finally stick to the plan, each cancellation feels more disappointing. By not expecting anything from them, you protect yourself from feeling hurt or let down. This approach can help you manage your emotions and maintain a sense of calm and stability. If you apply this idea in your life, you'll likely feel less frustrated with people who don't always act reliably.
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