“We always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love – first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage”
— Albert Camus
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Simplified Meaning:
When we're in love, we often see the person as better than they really are. We overlook their flaws and think they are perfect. For example, imagine getting a new pet. At first, you might see only how cute and playful it is, ignoring any bad behavior. Later, as time goes on, we might start to notice their imperfections more and be more critical of them. It's like with the pet; after a while, you might be more annoyed by the mess it makes or how it wakes you up early. This quote is telling us to be aware of how our opinions about loved ones can swing from very positive to very negative, and to try to understand and accept them for who they really are. If we can do this, we will have more realistic and healthier relationships.
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