“Love, friendship, respect, do not unite people as much as a common hatred for something.”
— Anton Chekhov
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People often feel closer to others when they dislike the same thing. For example, imagine two coworkers who both can't stand their demanding boss. Even if they don’t know each other well, complaining about their boss might bring them together quickly. They bond over their shared negative feelings. This happens because they feel understood and supported by someone who feels the same way. It's easier for people to connect over a common enemy or problem than it is over positive feelings like love or respect. If you want to bring people together, finding a shared issue can be a powerful way to connect them. However, it's healthier to focus on positive commonalities instead of dwelling on hate or negativity.
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