"直到我们能够以开放的心态接受，我们才是真正以开放的心态给予。当我们对接受帮助附带评判时，我们有意或无意地对给予帮助也附带评判。"
— Brene Brown
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To truly give and receive with kindness, we need to be open and accepting. If we feel uncomfortable or judge ourselves when people help us, we may do the same when we help others. Imagine you are always the one helping your friends move but feel awkward when they offer to help you. This can make it seem like needing help is a weakness, which can affect how you help others. By accepting help graciously, we show that it's okay to need others and grow more generous when we give. Learning to receive without judgment makes us kinder and more understanding, creating a friendlier community where everyone feels valued.
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Acceptance Compassion Empathy Giving Helping others Judgment Kindness Open heart Receiving Self-awareness
