"Le pardon ne signifie pas excuser"
— C. S. Lewis
Simplified Meaning:
When you forgive someone, it doesn't mean you are saying what they did was okay. Imagine a friend lies to you. If you forgive them, you are letting go of your anger towards them. However, this does not mean you think lying is acceptable; you are simply choosing not to hold a grudge. Forgiveness is more about finding peace for yourself rather than letting the other person off the hook completely. For example, if someone at work gossips about you and you forgive them, you are not saying the gossip was fine. You may decide to forgive them so you can move on and not feel hurt, but you might also be more careful about what you tell them in the future. In this way, forgiveness helps you feel better, but it does not mean you forget or excuse harmful actions.