"如果你认为这会有一个幸福的结局，那是因为你一直没在关注。"
— George R.R. Martin
Simplified Meaning:
Sometimes things may seem like they are going to end well, but if you really understand the situation, you know that's not the case. Imagine watching a TV show where the hero is in big trouble, and everything is going wrong. If you are really paying attention, you can see that there are too many problems for it to end happily. For example, in history, people hoped the Titanic would safely reach America, but if they noticed the warnings about the iceberg and the ship's lack of lifeboats, they might have predicted the disaster. Similarly, if you're in a difficult relationship where there are constant fights and problems, hoping for a happy future might not be realistic unless things change. To apply this idea to your life, look at situations carefully and honestly. Don't ignore warning signs or assume everything will be fine if it's clear there are significant issues. It helps to stay realistic and prepared, rather than being caught off guard by a bad ending.
