"不要在意别人告诉你关于其他人的任何事情。对每个人和每件事都要自己判断。"
— Henry James
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Simplified Meaning:
Don't worry about what other people say about someone else. Make your own decisions about people and things. For example, imagine you start a new job and a coworker warns you that another employee is lazy. Instead of believing this right away, watch how that employee works and come to your own conclusion. They might actually be hardworking and just had a misunderstanding with your coworker. By judging for yourself, you avoid making unfair choices based on gossip and help create better relationships. This advice encourages you to be fair and independent in your thinking, so you make more accurate and informed opinions.
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Critical thinking Discernment Independence Open-mindedness Personal judgment Personal perspective Self-awareness Self-judgment Self-relianceFEATURED QUOTES
