"最好的报复是不像他那样伤害别人。"
— Marcus Aurelius
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When someone hurts you, it might seem natural to want to hurt them back. However, getting back at them doesn't really solve anything and can even make you feel worse. Instead, it's better to remain kind and not sink to their level. For example, if a coworker is spreading rumors about you, you might feel like spreading rumors about them in return. But if you choose not to, and continue to work hard and be kind, you show that you're the bigger person. By not reacting with anger or meanness, you keep your dignity and self-respect. Over time, people will see your true character and respect you more, while the person who treated you badly will likely face the consequences of their actions.
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