“Good breeding consists in concealing how much we think of ourselves and how little we think of the other person”
— Mark Twain
Simplified Meaning:
Being polite and having good manners means not showing off how highly you think of yourself and not making others feel less important. It's about being humble and respectful, even if you might believe you're smarter or better in some way. Imagine you're very good at playing chess, and you're playing against a friend who's not as skilled. Instead of bragging about your wins and making your friend feel bad, you compliment them on their good moves and play the game in a way that's enjoyable for both of you. When you act like this, people will feel comfortable around you and appreciate your kindness. This approach helps build better relationships because it shows you care about other people's feelings just as much as you care about your own achievements.