"私たちは娘たちに、お世辞を言う男性と褒め言葉を言う男性の違い、彼女にお金を使う男性と彼女に投資する男性の違い、彼女を所有物として見る男性と正しく見る男性の違い、彼女に欲望を抱く男性と彼女を愛する男性の違い、自分が女性にとって贈り物だと思っている男性と彼女が自分にとっての贈り物だと思っている男性の違いを教える必要があります。"
— Nicholas Sparks
Simplified Meaning:
It's important for girls to understand the difference between good and bad treatment from men. Some men might say nice things just to get something from her, while others compliment her because they genuinely appreciate her. Some men might buy her gifts to impress her, but others will spend money in ways that show they care about her future and well-being. A man might see her as something he owns, but a good man will respect her as an equal. A man might just be physically attracted to her, but true love goes deeper and cares about who she really is. Lastly, some men may act like they're the best thing that ever happened to women, but the right man will cherish her and recognize how special she is. For example, think about friends you might have. There's a difference between a friend who only calls when they need something and a friend who's there for you no matter what. We should help girls recognize and choose the kind of men who are like that true friend, someone who respects, values, and loves them sincerely.