"من العبث تقسيم الناس إلى أخيار وأشرار. الناس إما ساحرون أو مملون."
— Oscar Wilde
Simplified Meaning:
Rather than splitting people into categories of good and bad, it's more useful to think about whether they are interesting or boring. For example, imagine you are at a party. Some people there might not be perfect, but they tell funny stories, make you laugh, and keep you entertained. Others might not do anything wrong, but they don’t engage much, so the conversation feels dull. This perspective suggests that instead of judging people based on strict moral labels, it’s better to consider how they make us feel and how they interact with us. So, when meeting someone new, instead of questioning if they are 'good' or 'bad,' think about how they relate to others. Are they friendly and lively or quiet and unengaging? Applying this idea means you focus more on enjoying interactions and less on labeling people. It can help us be more open-minded and appreciate different personalities. Next time you meet someone, pay attention to what you enjoy about their company and how they make you feel instead of jumping to conclusions about their character.