"もし痛みがやって来るなら、早く来てほしい。なぜなら私には生きる人生があり、それを可能な限り最善の方法で生きたいからです。もし彼が選択をしなければならないなら、今すぐにでもそれをしてほしい。そうすれば私は彼を待つか、彼を忘れるかのどちらかを選ぶことになるでしょう。"
— Paulo Coelho
Simplified Meaning:
When something difficult or painful is going to happen, it's better for it to happen as soon as possible so it doesn't drag on and cause more stress. This way, you can deal with the pain, recover, and get back to living your life fully. For instance, if you're waiting for someone to decide whether they want to be with you or not, it's crucial they make their decision quickly. If they decide to stay, you can invest in the relationship. If they choose to leave, you can start moving on and finding your own happiness. It's about not letting uncertainty control your life and making sure you live in a way that brings you joy and fulfillment.
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