"如果不是明确的同意,那就是明确的拒绝。"
— Randi Zuckerberg
Simplified Meaning:
When you're trying to decide whether to do something and you don't feel super excited or sure about it, it means you should probably say no. Imagine you're invited to a party. If you're really looking forward to it and can't wait to go, that's a clear yes. But if you're unsure or have mixed feelings, it's better to politely decline. This idea helps you avoid getting stuck in situations that don't make you happy or that you're not fully committed to. For example, if you're asked to take on a project at work and you're not enthusiastic or confident about doing a great job, it's better to say no. This way, you can focus on things you're passionate about and can excel in. Living by this rule can help you make better decisions and lead a more fulfilling life because you're only saying yes to things that truly matter to you.