"你必须小心,因为你不希望你的注意力使用变成一种操纵形式。"
— Russell Brand
Simplified Meaning:
Being careful with how you give attention to others is important. It's easy to use attention in a way that controls people or makes them do what you want. For example, imagine a friend always compliments you only when they need a favor. This makes you feel good, but it also makes you feel like you owe them something. That kind of attention is manipulative because it's not genuine; it's used to get something in return. Instead, give attention honestly and without expecting anything back. This way, your relationships will be based on trust and mutual respect, not on hidden motives.
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