"友情とは、他人の愚かさや不幸との同盟に過ぎない。我々自身の不幸で十分である。なぜ他人の不幸に自ら進んで加わるのか？"
— Thomas Jefferson
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Sometimes, friendships can be challenging because they mean sharing in other people's mistakes and problems. Imagine you have enough troubles of your own, like dealing with school stress or personal issues. Becoming close with friends means you also take on their issues, like helping them through a breakup or supporting them when they are sad. It’s like willingly adding more weight to the load you are already carrying. While caring for friends is important, it's crucial to find a balance so that you don’t get overwhelmed by their problems. Being a good friend doesn’t mean you have to fix everything for them; sometimes just being there to listen is enough.
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