"友谊不过是与他人的愚蠢和不幸结盟的另一个名称。我们自己的不幸已经足够了：为什么还要自愿加入别人的不幸呢？"
— Thomas Jefferson
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Sometimes, friendships can be challenging because they mean sharing in other people's mistakes and problems. Imagine you have enough troubles of your own, like dealing with school stress or personal issues. Becoming close with friends means you also take on their issues, like helping them through a breakup or supporting them when they are sad. It’s like willingly adding more weight to the load you are already carrying. While caring for friends is important, it's crucial to find a balance so that you don’t get overwhelmed by their problems. Being a good friend doesn’t mean you have to fix everything for them; sometimes just being there to listen is enough.
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