"C'est un mauvais mot, 'appartenir.' Surtout quand on l'associe à quelqu'un qu'on aime. L'amour ne devrait pas être comme ça."
— Toni Morrison
Simplified Meaning:
When you think of the word 'belong,' it implies ownership or control over something. In the context of love, this idea isn’t healthy. True love means wanting the best for someone, not trying to control them or seeing them as your possession. For example, in a good relationship, both people encourage each other’s growth and respect individual freedom. Imagine a gardener who loves their flowers. They don't try to own sunlight or water; they just ensure the flowers have what they need to thrive. Similarly, in relationships, love should help each other grow rather than make someone feel restricted. So, in your life, try to support your loved ones without making them feel they owe you or are tied down. This way, the relationship stays healthy and joyful for both people.
