"任何试图在不考虑其原因的情况下消除生活中的爱的行为就像在不先弄清法官所审判的罪行之前处决法官一样。"
— Alain de Botton
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The quote talks about how important it is to understand the reasons behind feelings like love before trying to get rid of them. Just as it’s unfair to punish a judge without knowing the crime they handled, it’s unwise to dismiss love without figuring out why it exists. For example, imagine someone feels lonely because they lost a loved one. If they try to stop feeling love altogether, without understanding their loneliness, they might feel even worse. Instead, they should think about why they're sad and find healthy ways to cope. This approach can help them heal and appreciate love in the future. By digging deeper into our emotions, we can make better choices and live more fulfilling lives.
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