“Never allow a person to tell you no who doesn't have the power to say yes”
— Eleanor Roosevelt
Simplified Meaning:
When you seek approval or help, make sure to ask someone who has the authority to give it to you. Imagine you want to enter a club, but ask the janitor if you can go in. The janitor can't let you in because it's not their job to decide. Instead, ask the person at the front who is in charge of letting people in. This advice tells us to not waste time seeking answers from people who can't actually help us. In life, for important decisions like getting a job, a promotion, or permission, talk to the decision-makers. This way, you focus your efforts on those who truly have the ability to give you what you need.
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Assertiveness Confidence Decision-making Determination Empowerment Leadership Motivation Perseverance Resilience Self-belief