“You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do”
— Eleanor Roosevelt
Simplified Meaning:
People often worry about how others see them or what others think of them. The truth is, most people are busy with their own lives and don't spend much time thinking about you. Imagine this: you're worried about a small stain on your shirt at a party, but everyone else is focused on their own appearances or what they're doing. They might not even notice your shirt at all. For example, in school, you might stress about how you did on a presentation, fearing that everyone is judging you. However, the other students are likely thinking about their own presentations or what they're going to do after school. By understanding that other people are not paying as much attention to you as you think, you can feel more relaxed and confident. Instead of worrying about others' opinions, focus on what makes you happy and be true to yourself. It’s freeing to realize that people’s thoughts about you are fleeting, and you don't need to stress about them.
