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“Self-compassion asks us to understand and accept ourselves with the same gentleness and care we would offer to a friend”

Gabor Mate

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Imagine how you would treat a good friend who is going through a tough time. You would speak kindly to them, remind them it's okay to make mistakes, and offer your support. Now, think about how you often treat yourself when you face challenges or make errors. Many people are very critical of themselves, saying things to themselves they would never say to a friend. This idea is about shifting that perspective. It means showing yourself the same kindness and understanding you would show to someone you care about. For example, if you fail a test or have a difficult day at work, instead of beating yourself up, you could remind yourself that everyone has bad days and it's okay to not be perfect. By being gentle and caring with yourself, you can improve your well-being and approach challenges with a healthier mindset.

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Empathy Inner peace Kindness Mental health Mindfulness Personal growth Self-acceptance Self-care Self-compassion Self-love
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