"永远不要要求任何东西。永远不要要求任何东西,尤其是那些比你强壮的人。他们会自己提出并且自己给出一切。"
— Mikhail Bulgakov
Simplified Meaning:
Relying on others for help or favors can sometimes put you in a tricky situation, especially if they have more power or influence than you. Think of a time when you asked your boss for a favor – maybe extra time off. If your boss decides to give you that favor without being asked, it feels more genuine and comfortable. They offered because they wanted to, not because you asked. When you wait for someone to offer help, it shows patience and respect. It also means you're not putting yourself in a position where you owe them or they feel you are taking advantage of their kindness. For example, if a friend notices you're struggling and offers help, it feels different than you repeatedly asking them for help. This way, relationships stay balanced and based on mutual respect. By not asking, you also maintain your dignity and independence. People around you can see your strengths and might offer support when they notice you truly need it. This approach can lead to deeper trust and stronger bonds in your relationships.