“Anyone who loves in the expectation of being loved in return is wasting their time.”
— Paulo Coelho
Simplified Meaning:
When you love someone just because you want them to love you back, you might end up feeling disappointed. Love should come from a genuine place inside you, not because you expect something in return. Imagine you give a present to a friend, not because you want them to give you one later, but simply because you care about them. If you expect a gift back, you may feel let down if it doesn't happen, and it might feel like your gift wasn't real. In relationships, it's important to love freely and enjoy the act of caring for another person. When you don't tie your love to their response, you’ll find more happiness and true connection. Focus on giving love genuinely and even if it’s not returned right away, you’ll still have the joy of having shared your affection.