“Sometimes you put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down”
— Socrates
Simplified Meaning:
People often build emotional barriers to see who truly cares. These walls are not meant to isolate them completely but to test the depth of others' affection and commitment. Imagine someone who has been hurt before, like a person who has been betrayed by friends. They might become wary and reserved, creating distance to protect themselves. However, they still desire close connections, so they subconsciously hope that someone will notice their struggle and make an effort to reach out. For example, if a friend seems withdrawn after a tough experience, showing that you care by checking on them and offering support can help break down their protective barrier, proving your friendship is genuine. In relationships, this approach helps reveal who is willing to go the extra mile for you.
