“Scratch any cynic and you will find a disappointed idealist”
— George Carlin
Simplified Meaning:
People who appear negative or distrustful often started with high hopes and dreams. They wanted things to be better and believed strongly in positive change. Over time, when their expectations weren't met, they became disillusioned and skeptical about everything. For example, think of someone who used to be very enthusiastic about helping others and believed in making the world a better place. If they faced constant obstacles, disappointments, and saw questionable behavior repeatedly, they might start to doubt people's intentions and become cynical. This means their negativity is rooted in the frustration of their unfulfilled hopes. If we understand this, we can be more compassionate and patient with cynical people, realizing they might be upset because they once cared deeply.