"人を変えることはできない、変わることができるのは彼ら自身だけだ"
— Jonah Hill
Simplified Meaning:
People can only change their behavior, attitudes, or ways if they choose to do so themselves. Imagine a friend who has a bad habit, like smoking. No matter how much you want them to stop, they will only quit if they truly decide to. You can encourage them, offer support, and share information, but the final decision is theirs. In history, think about social movements: they gain momentum because individuals decide to change their views and actions. Similarly, if someone is stuck in a negative pattern, they have to recognize the need for change and make efforts. Instead of trying to control others, focus on being a good example and creating an environment that supports positive choices. By understanding and accepting this, you can reduce frustration and build better relationships. Encourage others, but know that real change comes from within.
