"他人がどう思うか気にしないと言う人々は、通常、他人がどう思うか気にしないと思われたいと必死になっています。"
— George Carlin
Simplified Meaning:
Some people claim they don't worry about others' opinions, but often those same people really want others to believe they are carefree. This means they deeply care about appearing indifferent. Imagine a teenager dressing in an unusual way and saying they don't mind what their classmates think. However, they frequently look around to see others' reactions, hoping everyone notices their bold style. This behavior shows they actually seek approval and attention, even as they assert they don't. In our own lives, it's important to be honest with ourselves about our need for acceptance. Pretending not to care can be exhausting and may prevent genuine connections with others. Being true to ourselves and acknowledging our desire to be liked can lead to more authentic and fulfilling relationships.
