“Lend yourself to others but give yourself to yourself”
— Michel de Montaigne
Simplified Meaning:
It's important to help others and share your time, but always make sure you don't lose yourself in the process. Imagine you are a parent or a friend; you want to be there for everyone, helping with their problems and supporting them. While this is kind and caring, you still need to take care of your own needs and dreams. Just like on an airplane when they tell you to put your own oxygen mask on first before assisting others, you must ensure your own well-being. This way, you'll be stronger and more capable of offering real help. Balance is key; by making sure you are happy and healthy, you can be more effective and supportive to those around you. This approach helps maintain your own identity and happiness while still being a good friend, parent, or colleague.
