"La plus grande partie de ce que nous appelons la personnalité est déterminée par la manière dont nous avons choisi de nous défendre contre l'anxiété et la tristesse"
— Alain de Botton
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Our personality, or the way we act and think, is greatly shaped by how we handle stress and feeling down. For example, if someone often feels worried, they might develop habits to cope, like always trying to be in control of things. This behavior becomes a part of who they are. Another person might joke around a lot to hide their sadness, making them seem funny and cheerful, even if they feel otherwise inside. Over time, these coping methods become a normal part of their personality. To apply this idea in life, one could try understanding their own reactions and work on healthier ways to deal with difficult emotions. Recognizing these patterns can lead to personal growth and better relationships.
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